Hi Tasneem bhai, Sorry I haven’t seen your email before i send my last email. I would not send it if i could see your email earlier although I believe a healthy debate is always better. Best regards
Akash
On Sun, 19 Apr, 2020 at 1:32 PM, Tasneemul Galib amitabho@gmail.com [perthbashi] <perthbashi@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
> > > Dear All, > > Let us show some maturity and stop all these debate right now. > > In an open email platform like Perthbashi, everyone can practice their > freedom of speech (with of course some common sense by not circulating any > hatred and personally attacking emails). There is nothing wrong with > expressing yourself, your ideas and ideals, but one should maintain minimum > courtesy and show due respect to the member of this recipient group. We > have subscribers from different religions, age group and profession. We > have subscribers like Hon. Counsel General and representatives from > Bangladesh High Commission. This doesn’t mean that you cannot express > freely, but imagine yourself in a podium, with all these faces (of your > friends, family etc as well as not-so-known faces) and then express > yourself with a little bit of articulation. That’s all I would request you > all to practice when you communicate in any public forum. > > Please remember, differences of opinion will always be there, and that’s a > good thing – but we must learn to disagree better. There is no winner or > looser in a debate like this. In my humble opinion, if we keep debating > like this, eventually we will all loose (eg, friendship, communal harmony > etc), and if we stop right now, we will all win. > > Please stop further emails on this topic, show your maturity, and practice > mutual respect in your correspondence. Please understand that you cannot > control anyone or anyone’s action or a situation, but you can only control > your own response, and that’s all I request you to remember – just stop > writing impulsive emails, take a break, take a deep breath and ask yourself > before sending your next email – is it really necessary to send this email > and let the entire community know your personal feelings/opinion? > > Stay safe everyone. Stay blessed. > > Best wishes, > Tasneemul Galib (Amit) > > > > On Sun, 19 Apr 2020 at 12:54, Khandoker Ali k-murshed@hotmail.com > [perthbashi] <perthbashi@yahoogroups.com> wrote: > > >> >> Well said Sabbir Bhai. >> >> It is a great opportunity for IPDC to declare whether they are associated >> with Jamat-e-Islami or not? I am super keen to know their answer to this.. >> >> Also, a humble opinion to Faruk bhai- the definition of ‘community’ in >> text book or Wikipedia is far different than what we call community in real >> life. Same applies to your ‘citizenship’ definition. >> >> Similar to Sabbir bhai- I have experienced Nasim bhai and his family’s >> contribution to this Perth community. Even though they are not in Perth >> temporarily, they will be part of our community like the rest of us who >> know them well! >> >> Rakib >> >> >> Sent from Ali’s iPhone. >> >> >> >> >> On 19 Apr 2020, at 11:39 am, Sabbir Rahman rahman..sabbir@gmail.com >> <rahman.sabbir@gmail.com> [perthbashi] <perthbashi@yahoogroups.com> >> wrote: >> >> >> Hi Everyone, >> >> As an ex Perth resident ( but like Nasim vai very attached to it) its >> really sad to see all this argument. >> >> First of all thanks to IPDC for taking such a great step to help other. >> Its a great initiative. >> >> I really wish Nasim vai isnt attacked personally regarding this matter as >> he has not spoken about any single person or named names, his concerns were >> regarding an organization. >> >> I personally understand Nasim vais concern as me and my family have been >> very lucky to be associated with him socially and a lot of his friends. >> Nasim vai and Mimi vabi has always welcomed us and others with welcome arms >> and made us feel at home and Perth as a city would not mean anything to us >> if not for people like Nasim vai and others. So, those of us who know Nasim >> vai, know very well why our community means so much to him and vabi. >> >> If Nasim Vai’s comment regarding IPDC is wrong, please those who are >> associated with IPDC, please stand up for your group and deny Nasim Vais >> comments. >> >> If you are not part of Jamat e Islami, just say you are not, instead of >> accusing him personally. >> If you are a part of Jamat e Islami, just say you are and then people can >> decide whether they want to donate or not. >> Or third option could be like Israels answer to Nuclear Weapons….they >> neither accept nor deny they have any. such weapons, and people can decide >> whether to donate or not. >> >> If Nasim Vai or anyone said something about me which was not true, I >> think I will definitely stand up for myself and deny it and people can >> decide who they want to believe, thats not my concern but I will not let it >> pass >> >> I believe we should not be afraid of the truth and express it to the best >> of our ability. >> >> Also, to attack Nasim Vai personally and saying he has no right to speak >> about his concerns in Perth is as illogical as saying no Muslims should >> speak about Palestine as they are not Palestinian. >> >> I am not going to educate anyone from IPDC about what Islam says about >> slandering another human being as I am sure they are much more educated >> then me. >> >> I didn’t see Nasim Vai attack anyone p